Dating Is Dead? Hooking Up Is Not!


Well, I’ve basically dedicated the majority of my free time over the years to online dating and hooking up with hot local women. I’ve done my share of work when it comes to increasing your chances of success at dating online. I’ve also got some facts about it all that you need to know. There’s a good chance that if you’ve not taken my advice and joined a hookup app or site, then you’ll be doing so after you read this!

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Is Dating Really Dead?!?!?

Don’t freak out just yet, please. For starters, there’s something I’ll share with you according to Upworthy, people are blaming “hook-up culture” on a lot of things, one being the demise of romance and finding real love. I’m here to say that this is absolute bullshit and is in no way shape or form true. Yes, there are a ton of options out there for what’s being called hook-up gratification, and I’m a user of one or two because they work like a charm! But to say that dating is dead is absurd!

In fact, dating is stronger than ever today. We’re just all having more fun for a longer period of time before settling down with someone. The bottom line is that people are getting married at an older age today. But that doesn’t mean that they are not dating and connecting with others. They’re simply being more cautious and not tying the knot at as fast of a pace as they have in previous years.

What’s The Problem With This?

You wanna to know what the problem really is with this? Absolutely nothing! We’re all hooking up with more sexual partners and we are getting laid more than ever today! The use of hookup apps is at it’s highest rate yet and the phenomenon of meeting and bangin’ is here to stay. If it works for me it can work for anyone. So, stop freaking out, dating isn’t dead, nor is hooking up. It’s all fine and dandy. Just go out there are get laid for gosh sakes. No one wants to be alone during the holiday season. So at a minimum, I suggest you find yourself a holiday fling and finish the year off with a smile!

How A Dirty Text Message Improves Dating Life


As an avid Snapsext user, I’ve been left with no choice but to send out hundreds of messages to users within my local network. I typically log on a couple times each morning and night to check in and see what Snapsext messages someone as left me. Sending dirty messages through the site has changed my life for the better and I’m not the only one. I’ve officially got proof from the New York Magazine that dirty texts can help you get laid and better your dating life.

Dirty Text Message Chains Will Get You Laid

A girl recently wrote in to the New York Magazine sharing an interesting story. She let the world know about her pretty little secret on getting laid through the use of a crazy dirty text message. Here’s the message.

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This was basically an ice breaker that she used. I’ve been known to personally use messages like this from time to time myself. However, I don’t send text messages. Instead, I send them through the dating site I’m using at the time, which happens to be geared towards sending sext messages to others as a focus. Now, back to this story, it turns out that using this sext message (which was a rather lengthy one) resulted in this person getting laid on multiple occasions and even through the use of the same damn message!

My point here is, if you want to spice things up and increase your chances of hooking up, you’ve got to think outside the box and get someone excited. In order to do that, when you can’t physically speak to someone, sometimes you need to send them dirty messages and convince them that you’re 100% DTF! As an added bonus, people are horny and want to hook up during the holidays, so now is the best time to start!Now, if it doesn’t work for you, don’t give up. Instead, try and switch up your messages in an attempt to determine what works best for you. Good luck and happy Friday! Go get laid this weekend!

Ultra Honest Dating Sites Exist Already


I recently came across an article that wrote about a new Saturday Night Live (SNL) skit that aired this past weekend. It was based on the release of an app called Settl, which was a dating app that connects people willing to settle for less. Then I read the title of this article and immediately thought to myself, why the hell is SNL doing a skit on this? It’s not that funny and in fact, there are plenty of dating opportunities that exist out there for people and while the skit insinuates that ultra honest dating sites don’t exist, I’m here to tell you this is absolutely false.

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Settl SNL Dating Skit

SNL is way behind the 8-ball with this!

There are apps and dating sites out there that consist of honest members looking for specific things. A perfect example of this is none other than Snap Sext! For example, members join the site in hopes of connecting with horny locals that like to chat, text and meet to have sex with each other. If that’s not honesty, then I don’t know what is. I think the problem is that everyone is spending time looking for some politically correct match that looks good instead of being honest with themselves and letting the world know that all they really want to do is have sex and meet some fun people to hang out with!

Having spent literally hundreds of hours using Snapsext, I’ve learned that there is an ultra honest dating site that exists out there and if you’re looking to be a part of a network where people are honest with themselves, members and the community as a whole then I’d suggest you look into joining this site. Now, if you’d prefer to continue to lie and connect with boring people on all those crappy mainstream dating sites then go right ahead and continue to do what you’re doing. You’ll eventually learn just like I did! I’d keep sharing my thoughts on this, but I have to try and line up some girls to fuck this weekend so I’ve got other priorities today. Sorry! All things aside, the video is pretty damn funny! It’s worth checking out!

How To Get A Girl To Have Sex With You


There’s a bit of a misconception that if you’re a guy and you follow a simple script that you’re going to successfully seduce a girl and eventually convince her to have sex with you. This is absolutely incorrect and in fact, is by no means is there are tried and true specific system that will get you laid every time. If that’s what you’re thinking exists then by all means, I’ll find thousands of things I’d like to sell you. But since I’m not a complete asshole, I’m not going to do that. Instead, I’m here to share with you a few tips that I’ve learned from some mentors that have helped me hook up with women that I’ve met online. These should all be somewhat helpful and may even help you crack the code, leading to having sex with some hot women in the very near future.

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A Few Things That Might Get A Girl To Have Sex With You

1) Let Her Know and Seduce Her

If you really want to get physical with a woman or perhaps your sex date, then I suggest you let her know how physically attracted you are to her. The key to this is doing it in the most obscure manner possible. Don’t just come out and say she’s hot and that you want to bang. That will not get your dick wet! Instead, I recommend you take a more humorous approach. You’ll have to play around with this to find what works. It’s going to be a bit different for each girl as we all have different levels of humor. Humor can sometimes even impress a girl enough to win them over alone.
2) Create Sexual Tension

If you want to get in her pants, you’ve got to create some sort of tension and by tension I mean sexual tension. The more the merrier too! Sexual tension typically occurs when two people are attracted to one another. You’ve got to get to a peak sexual tension level so that you can really push things over the hump and make it happen.

How do you do that? Simple, you must use your eyes and body to make this happen. Lean close to your date and look at her in a way that you really are fully engaged in everything about her. Pay careful attention to her legs and extremities, giving more attention to her hands, arms, legs as well as head. Now, I’m not telling you to stare at her like a piece of meat, just be slick about it and look overly interested in her and you just might increase your chances of getting inside her.

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Now, full disclosure, getting laid using a casual sex dating site like SnapSext is probably a lot easier than it might be with other sites. That’s because most of the women are willing and ready to have sex with the same motive as you. Use that to your advantage and get laid quicker!

Online Dating Can Boost Your Self Esteem


I typically don’t write posts on really serious topics, and this one isn’t all that serious, but it’s important to have self-esteem in general for healthy living. I’m here to share that online dating might be the best way to boost your self-esteem if you’re looking to hook up and you currently have low self-esteem.

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According to a writer at The Guardian, using an online dating site is a great opportunity when it comes to dating someone. Here’s why, online dating or using a casual dating website gives you a chance to “test the waters” a bit and really expand your search in terms of finding someone that you can really connect with.

I know from my personal experience, I’ve enjoyed using advanced search options to try and zero in on someone that might have similarities or may be interested in something that I too am interested in other than just banging. Don’t get me wrong, my typical objective to simple and yours should be too. It’s to, meet someone on Snapsext, message them, meet them and get laid. Rinse and repeat and it works but for those that have yet to dive into online dating, I’m here to tell you not to let your low self-esteem deter you from doing so. It just might change it for the better!

Now, in order to boost that self-esteem and have a really successful Internet dating experience, you need to equip yourself with things such as an effective dating profile that attracts others and you’ll also need to know what to do when you finally meet up your date. If you play your cards right, there’s a solid chance that you’ll be getting laid which will result in a huge boost in self-esteem! Trust me, it just works!

Various Hookup Types During and After College


I recently read an article where a girl revealed her relationships after her first year of college. Have you ever sat down and tried to categorize the different types of relationships or hookups that you’ve had while in college? Me too! My list is long because I like to sleep with a lot of people! That said, I’ve got some great news for you if you’re interested in knowing a few of the different kinds of hookups or relationships that you can enjoy during and even after you college years. I still do!

Types of Hook Ups!

One Night Stand

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Where all familiar with this one so I figured I’d get it out of the way rather quickly. Those wonderful webs of strange college students often means, tangling up with a one night stand and doing so multiple times! Yes, I said it. I was VERY promiscuous and I’m not sorry either. For those of you that haven’t had a one night stand, it’s a blast and I suggest having at least one during your college years. I’d even recommend doing it after that because it only gets better with age.

Dating Network Regular

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Those of you that have joined multiple dating sites know what I’m talking about. I’m referring to the dating regular. This is the local person that you met using a dating network that’s made it a point make themselves available on a regular basis in order to fuck. A great person to have on speed dial. That’s all I’m going to say.

Long Distance Sex

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This is a rather weird one. The long distance sex relationship is one that occurs with someone that lives far away. it typically happens only from time to time when you see each other due to the distance but when you do see each other, you hook up!

Exclusive Banging, Not Dating

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Then there’s the “not dating” relationship that’s really banging which turns into exclusive banging without an actual name on it. It’s crazy complicated sounding, but it’s nothing more than having sex exclusively with someone that doesn’t want to be seen with you. Yes, I said it.

Snap, Sext, Chat Hookup

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Saving the best for last, there’s the picture and video snapping, sexting and chat hookup that takes place. This can happen with someone you know after a night of partying or with someone you meet at Snapsext that you don’t want to physically go see that night. The sky is the limit with this one.

Anyway, these are all types of hookups that people have in college. If you’ve not experienced any of them then I’d suggest you try!

Craigslist Personals: 5 Reasons To Never Use It!


The Craigslist personals section is something I wish I could say I’m not familiar with. What I can say is that it’s by far the worst way to meet someone ever and I’m going to share exactly why that is. Here’s a few reasons why I suggest that you never ever use Craigslist to find someone to have sex with.

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It’s Creepy

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I’m not sure if you’ve spent time browsing the personals section of Craigslist but if you haven’t I’d suggest that you never start! There are some straight up creepy mofos on Craigslist. No, I’m not making an assumption here. I’m sharing facts rather than fiction.

Most Are Fake

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Speaking of fiction, ever been set up on a blind date thinking that you’re going to be meeting up with some smoke show hotty to trotty and low and behold, you’re blind date reminds you more of Gollum from Lord of the Rings? Well, you’re going to find out real quick if you decide to use it. On another note, by fake I mean not real people but other sites. A lot of people post their dating site profiles on Craigslist in hopes of attracting others. I’m here to tell you that it’s a waste of time and not something you should pay any attention too. Instead, you’re better off just joining a casual sex network instead.

No Verification

verified nahDoes verification give you piece of mind? Me too! That’s why I stay the F away from craigslist. There’s no verification in the personals section other than some simple, lousy “I agree” link and that’s it. This link does nothing to verify people you are meeting. It’s there for legal purposes only.

Zero Guarantees

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I don’t know about you but I like a guarantee. If you’re looking for one, you’re not going to find one at Craigslist. Instead, you’ll find a bunch of people making promises they can’t keep and even more importantly, you’ll be seeing wasted efforts with no guaratees at all.

You Get What You Pay For

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Some people believe in paying for something to truly receive the worth. Craigslist is free, but with that being said, it’s free because there’s not enough value in the service for someone to pay for it. Instead, I like to pay a low dollar amount that connects me with multiple potential partners in a safer and more discreet network.

If you want a shitty dating experience then post an ad on Craigslist. If you’re looking for a guaranteed chance at hooking up with professional services rendered, then join Snapsext!

Myths About Dating Someone Younger


Dating someone younger than you doesn’t have to be such a difficult task and it’s one of those things that typically encompasses a few myths. That being said, I want to share a few myths that you need to know before you start dating someone younger than you. Once you know these myths, you can then start to worry about getting laid and stop worrying about someones age.

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Age and Dating Myths

Here’s a few of the myths that you need to know exist…

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Younger People Are Totally Immature

One this you need to know is that younger people are not always immature. It’s a total myth and misconception that younger people are thought of as being immature. In fact, I’ve met some really mature college girls since I started using SnapSext and they’ve been some of the most exciting girls I’ve hooked up with. That said, younger people aren’t always immature and some are just looking to get laid just like you are.

Nothing In Common

Another myth when dating younger people is that you have absolutely nothing in common with them. This is definitely a myth for sure, especially for those that use dating sites and hook up apps. More often than not, everyone using a my recommended site has something in common….they all just want to have sex and they love sending sext messages to each other. I’m not sure why some people think that age similarity and commonality go hand in hand but they do not. Two individuals can be far from the same age and they can have the same things in common.

It’s About That Money

Most people think that younger people date older individuals for the money. Yes, under some arranged circumstances, there are individuals seeking arrangements for money. However, it’s a misconception and myth that that younger girls date older men for the money.

You Care What Others Think

Some believe that people don’t date others that are younger due to them caring about what other individuals think of them. Truth be told, most people give zero fucks about what others think in terms of their dating and relationships.

These are probably the most common myths when it comes to dating someone younger. Now, if you’re anything like me, then you love dating hot local girls in their 20’s and early 30’s. I probably spend more time trying as well successfully hoping up with girls I meet on Snapsext and you can too!

Garlic Scent Makes You More Attractive


Most people think that some things simply turn off women without a doubt. Well, I’m hear to fight that misconception today and I’m doing it with garlic! Can having a garlic odor really make you more attractive? Find out!

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According to a recent study, personal body odor is one characteristic that impacts your level of attractiveness. Strangely enough, the study that was published by Appetite, states that eating garlic can make us more attractive.

Now, that being said, I’m not recommending that you create your garlic necklace as if you’re about to fight the vampire apocalypse. All I’m saying is that it doesn’t hurt to consume a little bit of garlic from time to time. I’d personally suggest eating a meal a week that contains natural garlic. Something that’s really tasty too. You might as well enjoy the dish you’re going to consume so have at it!

Again, please note that I’m not telling you to eat at Nuovo Vesuvio every night with the rest of the Sopranos crew. But don’t be afraid to indulge in some garlic-based dishes. It only makes you more attractive.


Now if you want to be extra efficient, you can plan to take one of the girls you meet online to a restaurant that serves dishes with garlic in them. I typically take this approach if the girl is really sexy and somewhat upscale looking. I then know that it’s important that i put forth the extra effort and take her out for a nice dinner. I don’t do this for all my sex dates but for some I do go the extra mile. When I do, you know I really want to bang them!

How To Impress A Girl


We live our lives every day trying to impress others, whether we like it or not, that’s how it is. If you want to hook up, you must know how to impress a girl because if you can’t do this then you’ll never get any. Here are a few suggestions for those that wish to get laid.

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Dating 101: Three Tips on Impressing A Girl

Don’t Chase Her

Most girls are accustomed to being chased by guys. If you want to impress one, I’d suggest not chasing her. When a girl doesn’t get the attention that she wants, it makes her want it that much more. For those that throw themselves at women, I’d suggest you knock that off right away! I mean, I’m not telling you to not contact girls. You need to connect with women via Snap Sext if you want to get laid but you don’t need to chase them.

Say The Right Things

Want to impress a girl? Don’t say anything extreme or ridiculously stupid. Unless you’ve got a 12-inch dong and she knows that you’re packing that then it’s best to keep your tongue on lockdown. Just make sure that you say the right things if you want to get lucky. This applies to both meeting in person as well as any type of naked snap chat you have on a dating site.

Keep Her Guessing

I’d also suggest that you never ever lay your cards out on the table and surrender. The second you do, she will lose that thought that she has of being  with you. Once she’s “got you” it’s no longer a challenge for her. Instead, it’s a given and you lower your chances of getting laid again by her. Trust me on this one. I’ve been a victim of this myself.

Be A Badass Gentleman

Most girls don’t like to admit it but they like the bad boy type. They want some adventure in their lives. However, they also want security and to be treated like a lady when it counts. I’d highly suggest that you find a happy medium and act like what I refer to as a “bad ass” gentleman. This is quite simple to do actually. Just make sure you act the way you need to when it counts. Simple as that!

These may sound like pretty basic tips to you, however, the things mentioned are often ignored. Don’t ignore them if you want to get laid!