Tips For Meeting Women At A Local Coffee Shop


Coffee shops are literally the greatest places on earth. Caffeine and women, I mean what else could you possibly ask for? If you live in a city big enough to have coffee shops, you are lucky. Why? Because it’s a place where you can meet women in a relaxed atmosphere where it’s easy to strike up a conversation. Here are some tips that will increase your chances of meeting women the next time you stop for a latte or iced coffee. Actually, before I get started, I want you to know that hanging at coffee shops has helped me hook up for years.

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These tips can help just about anyone meet someone at a local coffee shop. I don’t care if you’re an executive, college student, or blue collar worker. My tips work so take them seriously!

Hang Out At The Busy Places (At The Right Times)

You may think that it’s best to go when there are a lot of customers to increase your chances, but it’s actually better to go when it’s slow. The women you see at a coffee shop during peak hours are usually rushing in and out and don’t have time to talk. You are better off going when there are less people and the women are less likely to have the need to rush off somewhere else.

Look Your Best

This is obvious, but it should be said. Want to impress a woman, then look presentable. If you go anywhere with hopes of connecting with women, you should look your best. Put on some nice clothes and sip your coffee with confidence like you are the coolest guy in the room. Show them that you have pride in your appearance and a sense of style.

Introduce Yourself

It’s best to strike up a conversation when a woman sits down at a table, but you can also approach them when they are waiting for their coffee. Be friendly without being too pushy and take no for an answer, if they don’t respond well. If you get them to smile or talk back to you then you can continue to lay on the charm.

Pay For The Coffee

Once you have them talking, you should make the effort to give them a reason to stick around for a while. Ask to buy them a refill or offer to buy a pastry. Keep them around long enough to make an impression, so they will be more likely to remember you and accept any offers for further communication.

Get Phone Numbers

You have made the connection and it’s time to get going. You should have made enough of an impression by now that they should be happy to give you their number. If they aren’t interested, don’t push the issue. There will be others. Ask for her number or give her yours and take it from there.

Extend An Invitation Out

If you are really hitting it off, you could take a chance, bypass getting their digits. Instead, invite them out somewhere. Ask them if they want to go to a local restaurant or park or just walk around town. It’s a nice local date spot to kick things off. It might lead to having dinner and drinks together that night. This is not going to work with every woman. Don’t move this fast unless you are sure that you have hit it off well enough where she can’t refuse.

One thing I purposely didn’t mention was to always be logged into your Snapsex dating app while at the coffee shop. This is super important because it can help you quickly connect with other locals looking to have casual sex. Good luck and just remember, the worst thing that can happen is getting a cup of coffee and doing some work!

How To Pick Up Girls At Starbucks


I’ve been known to hang out at Starbucks on numerous occasions. I actually float around various coffee shops in my local area. I’ve been hanging out at Starbucks for almost a year now on a daily basis and it’s helped me pick up girls to take out on dates. I’m going to share some of the tactics that I use to pick up these coffee loving babes.

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Picking Up Girls At Starbucks (How To Do It)

If you’re going to try and pick up any girl that’s hanging out at the local Starbucks then you need to take into account a few things before doing so. It’s not rocket science but it’s something that you must always take into consideration when meeting these women at the shop. You’ve got to have a sense of what they are doing.

What I mean by that is, understand whether or not they are there for a business meeting, chat with a friend, alone to read, daily first coffee, so on and so forth. The reason this is important is due to the approach that you’re going to take.

For example, if a girl is having coffee in business attire and she’s with someone else in a deep conversation, then you might not want to approach her with a corny pickup line. Chances are she’s having a work-related conversation and it’s crucial that you not interrupt things.

Now, if she’s sitting there in her yoga pants with her headphones on watching a video, then you can certainly approach her with a nice compliment or something to break the ice.

Impress The Girls of Starbucks

If you’re in line with a girl and you want to start a conversation with her, then just go for it. Start talking with her and prove that you’re confident enough to have a basic conversation.

When you reach the counter, you should tell the cashier that you’ll pay for her drink as well. This will impress her enough to be curious about you.

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Don’t Use Stupid Lines

Under no circumstances are you allowed to use stupid pickup lines on girls you meet at Starbucks. Since this is a public spot with tons of people around, if you use a terrible pickup line and it backfires you’re going to look like an asshole.

Instead, play it cool and just be normal. Don’t act like leisure suit larry trying to pick up and fuck anything that moves.

Dress Nice

Just because the girl at Starbucks is wearing hot yoga pants that you want to rip a hole in and stick your dick inside, doesn’t mean you should dress in gym gear. Wear clothes that are going to attract girls and make them want to bang you.

No one wants to fuck some guy that doesn’t know how to dress properly. Steer clear from cheesy t-shirts. I suggest that you wear something that will make you stand out from the crowd. A nice watch usually does the trick here!


Last but not least, every time you walk into a Starbucks, you’ve got to check your mobile snapsext app and see if any members are in the room. In the event that they are, you’ve got to try and connect with them first and foremost! That’s your easiest chance to fuck. Trust me, the girls of Starbucks like extra whipcream if you know what I mean. Give Starbucks a shot and you’ll hookup, I promise! Worst case, you’ll have a good cup of coffee – LOL.