Dating Is Dead? Hooking Up Is Not!


Well, I’ve basically dedicated the majority of my free time over the years to online dating and hooking up with hot local women. I’ve done my share of work when it comes to increasing your chances of success at dating online. I’ve also got some facts about it all that you need to know. There’s a good chance that if you’ve not taken my advice and joined a hookup app or site, then you’ll be doing so after you read this!

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Is Dating Really Dead?!?!?

Don’t freak out just yet, please. For starters, there’s something I’ll share with you according to Upworthy, people are blaming “hook-up culture” on a lot of things, one being the demise of romance and finding real love. I’m here to say that this is absolute bullshit and is in no way shape or form true. Yes, there are a ton of options out there for what’s being called hook-up gratification, and I’m a user of one or two because they work like a charm! But to say that dating is dead is absurd!

In fact, dating is stronger than ever today. We’re just all having more fun for a longer period of time before settling down with someone. The bottom line is that people are getting married at an older age today. But that doesn’t mean that they are not dating and connecting with others. They’re simply being more cautious and not tying the knot at as fast of a pace as they have in previous years.

What’s The Problem With This?

You wanna to know what the problem really is with this? Absolutely nothing! We’re all hooking up with more sexual partners and we are getting laid more than ever today! The use of hookup apps is at it’s highest rate yet and the phenomenon of meeting and bangin’ is here to stay. If it works for me it can work for anyone. So, stop freaking out, dating isn’t dead, nor is hooking up. It’s all fine and dandy. Just go out there are get laid for gosh sakes. No one wants to be alone during the holiday season. So at a minimum, I suggest you find yourself a holiday fling and finish the year off with a smile!

Ultra Honest Dating Sites Exist Already


I recently came across an article that wrote about a new Saturday Night Live (SNL) skit that aired this past weekend. It was based on the release of an app called Settl, which was a dating app that connects people willing to settle for less. Then I read the title of this article and immediately thought to myself, why the hell is SNL doing a skit on this? It’s not that funny and in fact, there are plenty of dating opportunities that exist out there for people and while the skit insinuates that ultra-honest dating sites don’t exist, I’m here to tell you this is absolutely false.

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Settl SNL Dating Skit

SNL is way behind the 8-ball with this!

There are apps and dating sites out there that consist of honest members looking for specific things. A perfect example of this is none other than Snap Sext! For example, members join the site in hopes of connecting with horny locals that like to chat, text and meet to have sex with each other. If that’s not honesty, then I don’t know what is.

I think the problem is that everyone is spending time looking for some politically correct match that looks good instead of being honest with themselves and letting the world know that all they really want to do is have sex and meet some fun people to hang out with!

Having spent hundreds of hours using Snapsext, I’ve learned that there is an ultra-honest dating site that exists out there and if you’re looking to be a part of a network where people are honest with themselves, members, and the community as a whole then I’d suggest you look into joining this site.


Now, if you’d prefer to continue to lie and connect with boring people on all those crappy mainstream dating sites then go right ahead and continue to do what you’re doing. You’ll eventually learn just like I did! I’d keep sharing my thoughts on this, but I have to try and line up some girls to fuck this weekend so I’ve got other priorities today. Sorry! All things aside, the video is pretty damn funny! It’s worth checking out!

How To Get A Girl To Have Sex With You


There’s a bit of a misconception that if you’re a guy and you follow a simple script that you’re going to successfully seduce a girl and eventually convince her to have sex with you. This is absolutely incorrect and in fact, is by no means is there are tried and true specific system that will get you laid every time. If that’s what you’re thinking exists then by all means, I’ll find thousands of things I’d like to sell you. But since I’m not a complete asshole, I’m not going to do that. Instead, I’m here to share with you a few tips that I’ve learned from some mentors that have helped me hook up with women that I’ve met online. These should all be somewhat helpful and may even help you crack the code, leading to having sex with some hot women in the very near future.

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A Few Things That Might Get A Girl To Have Sex With You

1) Let Her Know and Seduce Her

If you really want to get physical with a woman or perhaps your sex date, then I suggest you let her know how physically attracted you are to her. The key to this is doing it in the most obscure manner possible. Don’t just come out and say she’s hot and that you want to bang. That will not get your dick wet! Instead, I recommend you take a more humorous approach. You’ll have to play around with this to find what works. It’s going to be a bit different for each girl as we all have different levels of humor. Humor can sometimes even impress a girl enough to win them over alone.
2) Create Sexual Tension

If you want to get in her pants, you’ve got to create some sort of tension and by tension I mean sexual tension. The more the merrier too! Sexual tension typically occurs when two people are attracted to one another. You’ve got to get to a peak sexual tension level so that you can really push things over the hump and make it happen.

How do you do that? Simple, you must use your eyes and body to make this happen. Lean close to your date and look at her in a way that you really are fully engaged in everything about her. Pay careful attention to her legs and extremities, giving more attention to her hands, arms, legs as well as head. Now, I’m not telling you to stare at her like a piece of meat, just be slick about it and look overly interested in her and you just might increase your chances of getting inside her.

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Now, full disclosure, getting laid using a casual sex dating site like SnapSext is probably a lot easier than it might be with other sites. That’s because most of the women are willing and ready to have sex with the same motive as you. Use that to your advantage and get laid quicker!

Various Hookup Types During and After College


I recently read an article where a girl revealed her relationships after her first year of college. Have you ever sat down and tried to categorize the different types of relationships or hookups that you’ve had while in college? Me too! My list is long because I like to sleep with a lot of people! That said, I’ve got some great news for you if you’re interested in knowing a few of the different kinds of hookups or relationships that you can enjoy during and even after you college years. I still do!

Types of Hook Ups!

One Night Stand

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Where all familiar with this one so I figured I’d get it out of the way rather quickly. Those wonderful webs of strange college students often means, tangling up with a one night stand and doing so multiple times! Yes, I said it. I was VERY promiscuous and I’m not sorry either. For those of you that haven’t had a one night stand, it’s a blast and I suggest having at least one during your college years. I’d even recommend doing it after that because it only gets better with age.

Dating Network Regular

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Those of you that have joined multiple dating sites know what I’m talking about. I’m referring to the dating regular. This is the local person that you met using a dating network that’s made it a point make themselves available on a regular basis in order to fuck. A great person to have on speed dial. That’s all I’m going to say.

Long Distance Sex

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This is a rather weird one. The long distance sex relationship is one that occurs with someone that lives far away. it typically happens only from time to time when you see each other due to the distance but when you do see each other, you hook up!

Exclusive Banging, Not Dating

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Then there’s the “not dating” relationship that’s really banging which turns into exclusive banging without an actual name on it. It’s crazy complicated sounding, but it’s nothing more than having sex exclusively with someone that doesn’t want to be seen with you. Yes, I said it.

Snap, Sext, Chat Hookup

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Saving the best for last, there’s the picture and video snapping, sexting and chat hookup that takes place. This can happen with someone you know after a night of partying or with someone you meet at Snapsext that you don’t want to physically go see that night. The sky is the limit with this one.

Anyway, these are all types of hookups that people have in college. If you’ve not experienced any of them then I’d suggest you try!