Texting Girls And How To Do It The Right Way

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I’ve been using a few go to dating sites over the years, one of which is the definition of perfection when it comes to hooking up with girls. The common denominator is that texting is a must on all of them. Now, when it comes to texting girls, there is a right way to do it and there is a wrong way. If you make the effort to send the right texts, you could end up getting laid faster than you realize.

If you make the same common mistakes many men do, you will only turn her off. Texting is an art that you need to learn to perfect. To learn how to send the right texts, you must first learn what not to do. I’m going to cover that aspect of things right now.

texting girls: doing it the right way

Texting Girls (The Wrong Way and Right Way)

First I’ll cover things that you need to know so that you don’t do them. Then I’ll cover the right way to text horny girls. Who knows, you might end up meeting up with one or two if you play your cards right!

The last thing you want to do is send boring or mundane texts. If you don’t pique her interests right away, she’ll move on to a guy who will. Here are some samples of boring and mundane texts to avoid:

  • Hey, how are you today? Are you working today or what?
  • I was just thinking about you and thought I’d drop you a line. What’s up?
  • I enjoyed meeting you. Would you like to meet somewhere?
  • You are really fun to talk to. Would you like to get together sometime soon?

Here are some samples of responses you might get from her if you send one of these boring and mundane messages:

  • Things are a little complicated right now. I don’t really have time to go out.
  • I enjoyed meeting you as well, but I’m going out with someone this weekend.
  • I’m not prepared to go out with anyone right now. Sorry about that.

How to tell you’re doing it wrong…

There are tell-tale signs that you have made the wrong moves and a girl will let you know with her responses. If she is not interested, many girls (college girls especially) won’t respond at all. If she does, she responds with very short texts that don’t encourage further messages. They will also take a long time to respond. If she is interested, her responses will come rather quickly. Also, if you are initiating every text exchange, you are probably wasting your time.

How to text girls the right way…

Now that you know the wrong way to text her, let’s look at the right way. Each stage of texting comes with its own set of things to consider. I’ll explain each stage now.

Stage 1: The first stage is getting her attention. The first text you send should show your sense of humor. Make it playful and show your personality.

Stage 2: The second stage requires making a connection. A good way to make the connection is compliments. Show her that you’re a cool guy that she can trust. The more comfortable she is with you, the more likely you are to move on to the next stage.

Stage 3: The third stage is flirting. Show her that you’re not only funny, you’re sexy. Use this stage to tease her or flirt with her. The better she responds, the sexier the follow-up texts should be.

Stage 4: The fourth and final stage is sealing the deal. Keep your sense of humor and maintain flirting. If she continues responding in a positive way; ask her if she wants to meet.

Once you’ve built up your confidence and you think you’re ready then go for it, ask her out or to meet for drinks. Choose a local hotel that has great dining options. You will impress here, trust me. In the event that you do not, then pass on her entirely.

What To Do After A Breakup

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Breakups are no joke. It can literally destroy your everyday life if you do not know how to move on after a very tough breakup. If you have recently gone through a breakup, I understand how painful it is. But it in no way shape or form should this put a stop to your personal life. Nor should you fret over past memories. Some people find it really hard to move on because they are still carrying the feelings and memories of the past. Here are some tips on exactly what you need to do after a breakup in order to successfully move on with your life.

What To Do After A Breakup

Here’s What To Do After A Breakup

If you want to move on and completely forget your past love, here are a few things you need to start doing immediately.

Hitting The Delete Button

Once you know things are over between you and your girlfriend/boyfriend, it’s time to hit the delete button. Delete every single thing you have from them. That includes sext messages, Facebook/Twitter/Instagram profiles, pictures and any songs and videos they might have given you. If you keep these things intact, you will be constantly reminded of them and that will take you to the past. Your objective is to progress, not regress. Get that social shit out of the way!

Go On A Trip

One of the best ways to get your life back after a breakup is to go on a long, nice trip to a destination that you have always wanted to go to. This is a great distraction and sometimes getting out of the same city where you and your partner spent most of the time together can be a refreshing experience. During your trip, you will create many new memories and moments of fun will replace your old existing memories that basically make you feel like shit right now. My advice is to try and meet someone on your trip too.

Start Dating Again

Do not sit down and allow yourself to fret over someone who is no longer a part of your life. Immediately go out and start looking for someone to date. Once you start a new relationship, you will completely forget about your ex. Just make sure you never let the memories of your ex haunt you when you enter a new relationship. In fact, it’s best to try and date someone that’s the exact opposite of your ex.

Change Your Lifestyle

If you want to change things and forget about your breakup, try changing your lifestyle a bit. How about joining a gym or a yoga class? These are great distractions which will keep you away from thinking too much about your past. You will also have an opportunity to meet new people at the gym. Plus exercising releases positive hormones in your body which will make you feel a lot better about yourself in general. In fact, I’ve had sex with some women from my gym in the past. It’s a great place to meet someone to fuck, especially if you like milfs.

Craigslist Personals: 5 Reasons To Never Use It!

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The Craigslist personals section is something I wish I could say I’m not familiar with. What I can say is that it’s by far the worst way to meet someone ever and I’m going to share exactly why that is. Here’s a few reasons why I suggest that you never ever use Craigslist to find someone to have sex with.

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It’s Creepy

It's Creepy
I’m not sure if you’ve spent time browsing the personals section of Craigslist but if you haven’t I’d suggest that you never start! There are some straight up creepy mofos on Craigslist. No, I’m not making an assumption here. I’m sharing facts rather than fiction.

Most Are Fake

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Speaking of fiction, ever been set up on a blind date thinking that you’re going to be meeting up with some smoke show hotty to trotty and low and behold, you’re blind date reminds you more of Gollum from Lord of the Rings? Well, you’re going to find out real quick if you decide to use it. On another note, by fake I mean not real people but other sites. A lot of people post their dating site profiles on Craigslist in hopes of attracting others. I’m here to tell you that it’s a waste of time and not something you should pay any attention too. Instead, you’re better off just joining a casual sex network instead.

No Verification

verified nahDoes verification give you piece of mind? Me too! That’s why I stay the F away from craigslist. There’s no verification in the personals section other than some simple, lousy “I agree” link and that’s it. This link does nothing to verify people you are meeting. It’s there for legal purposes only.

Zero Guarantees

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I don’t know about you but I like a guarantee. If you’re looking for one, you’re not going to find one at Craigslist. Instead, you’ll find a bunch of people making promises they can’t keep and even more importantly, you’ll be seeing wasted efforts with no guaratees at all.

You Get What You Pay For

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Some people believe in paying for something to truly receive the worth. Craigslist is free, but with that being said, it’s free because there’s not enough value in the service for someone to pay for it. Instead, I like to pay a low dollar amount that connects me with multiple potential partners in a safer and more discreet network.

If you want a shitty dating experience then post an ad on Craigslist. If you’re looking for a guaranteed chance at hooking up with professional services rendered, then join Snapsext!