How To Recover From A Loving Relationship That’s Ended


We all go through breakups from time to time. It’s pretty common and ending a loving relationship is something that we hate to have to do but we do it. Most of us have suffered through a breakup at one time or another. Some breakups are harder and hurt more than others, but nothing hurts more than breaking up with someone that you love. A breakup like that can leave you virtually inconsolable. No matter what advice you are given or shoulders you cry on, nothing seems to ease the pain.

There’s not much you can do about the pain because time is the only thing that can heal a broken heart, but there are some things you can do to make the recovery just a little easier and maybe even shorten it. I’m going to tell you exactly what I suggest you do.

Relationship is over

Get Over A Loving Relationship Successfully Be Doing These Things

Here are some of the most important things that you should do if you want to get over a loving relationship. It’s over and you need to move on, so here’s what you should do!

Don’t Rush Your Recovery

When you suffer a breakup with someone that you love and have a deep connection with, it can feel like you’re in your own personal hell. You may feel the intense need to get out of this funk as quickly as possible, but you can’t rush it. If anything is going to make your recovery go faster, it must happen naturally. If you try to rush it, all you will be doing is extending it. Some try to rush it by pushing the pain way down, but it will resurface eventually and might resurface stronger than it was before. Face the pain and feel it when it comes, just don’t let it consume you.

Keep (Your Mind) Occupied

Keeping your mind occupied might sound like a contradiction to the notion of facing your pain, but that’s not what I mean by occupying your mind. I’m talking about keeping yourself busy, not ignoring your pain. If the pain comes, you must embrace it and deal with it, but if your mind is occupied with other things, the pain will take a back seat naturally without being forced. It is especially positive to keep yourself busy doing something that you didn’t do as often because you were in a relationship.

Thrive on Your Own

One thing that is crucial to recovering from lost love is learning to be independent and love yourself. You can build a future with someone you love, but it should never be to the detriment of your individuality. You must be happy with yourself before you can hope to be happy with someone else. That may have been what contributed to losing your love in the first place, so you can’t let it destroy you once that love is gone. Just because the person you love doesn’t want to be with you anymore, that does not mean that you are any less of a person.

No Rebound (Unless A Bootycall)

One of the most damaging things you can do after lost love is rushing into another relationship. You haven’t recovered from your last love yet and it will only mean disaster if you try to love again before you’re ready. It will be too easy to overcompensate and fall too hard too soon and you will only prolong and even worsen your pain. This is one of the main reasons why it’s best to use an online hookup site to have no strings attached sex or even just do some light video chat sex with someone. You won’t get attached by doing this and it’ll keep your mind occupied while getting over someone.

Look, you can’t avoid this type of thing. Time heals everything and using some dating sites that help connect you with people just for sex can help as well. Don’t use the Kik app or anything that people are telling you to use. Instead, do what I’m telling you to do!

What To Do After A Breakup


Breakups are no joke. It can literally destroy your everyday life if you do not know how to move on after a very tough breakup. If you have recently gone through a breakup, I understand how painful it is. But it in no way shape or form should this put a stop to your personal life. Nor should you fret over past memories. Some people find it really hard to move on because they are still carrying the feelings and memories of the past. Here are some tips on exactly what you need to do after a breakup in order to successfully move on with your life.

What To Do After A Breakup

Here’s What To Do After A Breakup

If you want to move on and completely forget your past love, here are a few things you need to start doing immediately.

Hitting The Delete Button

Once you know things are over between you and your girlfriend/boyfriend, it’s time to hit the delete button. Delete every single thing you have from them. That includes sext messages, Facebook/Twitter/Instagram profiles, pictures and any songs and videos they might have given you. If you keep these things intact, you will be constantly reminded of them and that will take you to the past. Your objective is to progress, not regress. Get that social shit out of the way!

Go On A Trip

One of the best ways to get your life back after a breakup is to go on a long, nice trip to a destination that you have always wanted to go to. This is a great distraction and sometimes getting out of the same city where you and your partner spent most of the time together can be a refreshing experience. During your trip, you will create many new memories and moments of fun will replace your old existing memories that basically make you feel like shit right now. My advice is to try and meet someone on your trip too.

Start Dating Again

Do not sit down and allow yourself to fret over someone who is no longer a part of your life. Immediately go out and start looking for someone to date. Once you start a new relationship, you will completely forget about your ex. Just make sure you never let the memories of your ex haunt you when you enter a new relationship. In fact, it’s best to try and date someone that’s the exact opposite of your ex.

Change Your Lifestyle

If you want to change things and forget about your breakup, try changing your lifestyle a bit. How about joining a gym or a yoga class? These are great distractions which will keep you away from thinking too much about your past. You will also have an opportunity to meet new people at the gym. Plus exercising releases positive hormones in your body which will make you feel a lot better about yourself in general. In fact, I’ve had sex with some women from my gym in the past. It’s a great place to meet someone to fuck, especially if you like milfs.