Stuff Single Guys Should Not Post On Social Media

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As you know, many casual dating sites are quite similar to social media sites today. That holds especially true for sites that are built to function similar to a huge social site like Snapchat, Facebook, and even Instagram. What you need to know is that what you say and do on both social media as well as dating sites does matter.

Social media has taken over our lives to the point that every guy needs to know how to properly use these apps. They’ve got to know how to use photos to represent themselves, despite many of them being horrible at taking pics and choosing which to post. There aren’t many hard rules when it comes to posting a picture on your timeline or feed. You should upload pics of yourself looking your best, be it without trying too hard. However, what’s actually more important than what you post is what not to post. As long as you avoid all the common mistakes, you’ll be more likely to attract women, rather than have them running for the hills.

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Simple Things Guys Must Refrain From Posting on Social Media Sites

Here is a simple list of things that all men should avoid posting on any social media channel and dating site. Trust me when I say that I’ve got ample experience in this department and if you’re not doing it right then you’re missing out on hookup opportunities (in a round about way). Pay close attention and do as I say…

Avoid posting a photo of you drunk or high. It may seem like a great idea at the time, but you should never post a picture of you inebriated. You aren’t going to look your best with droopy eyes and a cheesy smile and it comes off looking sad rather than cool. Unless some girl is a junkie or drug addict, she’s not going to find you super attractive, trust me. I always suggest hitting on girls when you are sober versus wasted. It’s always been more effective for me.

Don’t be a dick. Never post anything that is directly offensive to certain groups of people. It’s just really bad taste. So is cursing constantly and criticizing everyone and everything. If you come off as a dick on your timeline, you could scare off a potential connection. All it takes is one stupid comment or post and you’ve made yourself look like a total asshole, kudos to you!

Avoid posting a photo in traffic. Posting a bad selfie is one thing. Posting a dangerous one is something else entirely. You should not post a photo of yourself in traffic for two reasons. You might crash and feel like an idiot. You’ll also look like you’re desperate for attention. Guys that take pics in cars are complete tools. It makes them look like they can’t wait until they get to a destination to start photographing. Losers!

Avoid posting photos in inappropriate places. Don’t post photos of yourself in a bathroom or at a graveyard. One of the worst is when guys post a photo of themselves with people fighting in the background. You’re not tough so stop trying to act like a badass.

No one wants to see you nude. Too many guys think that women want to see photos of them scantily clad. Sorry guys, but it just doesn’t work that way. Women can take a revealing photo and guys love it. If a guy posts a revealing photo, it mostly looks gross.

Avoid posting humiliating photos of others. Don’t willingly post photos of your friends or anyone who is in a humiliating position. You wouldn’t want that done to you and it’s an invasion of that person’s privacy. Posting photos like that show that you are petty and vindictive or you just don’t care about how you make someone look or what you reveal about them.

Well, if you can manage to avoid doing all of these things, then chances are you’ll find yourself in being able to better connect with girls via social media and other casual networks. Don’t take my word for it though, just do it and see what happens. In fact, your best best is to start right here to kick things off.

​ Snapchat vs. Snapsext: Which Is Better?

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Now, I’ve used a ton of social sites geared towards networking. I’ve also used a lot of sites with the primary objective of getting my stick wet. More than enough times I’ve had a great time and experience using both. Today I’m throwing down the gauntlet to show you which is better, snapchat or snapsext. Through hours of testing, running trials and documented research, I’ve determined the winner.

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My Snapchat and Snapsext Evaluation

SnapChat is legit the most widely used video selfie website and app on the internet. It’s only a few years old and it’s blossomed into a wild community. I’ve used Snapchat over 100 times and I’ve got a few things to say about this social sharing site. Now, SnapSext is a couple years old and is quite popular as well. It’s not as widely used as SnapChat but that’s not what’s important here because both have millions of users. What is important is the level of enjoyment and fulfillment when using both. Here’s a summary of each of my personal experiences using both in a head-to-head challenge to determine which is better.

Snapchat Evaluation

Well, here’s how Snapchat.com works if you’re not familiar with it. First you need to download the app onto your smartphone. You’ll then need to log in and do all that jazz (pretty standard). Once you’ve verified your account, you’re now ready to play.

Here’s how Snap chat works. It’s really elementary to say the least. Once you open the app. All you need to do is snap a photo or video, send it via the app as a text message to a recipient and they’ll receive it. The kicker here is that the photo or video expires after only a few short minutes. Now, I like the fact that it does expire. However, you and I both know that I there are other apps that allow you to save anything these days. I’m not sure if that’s good or bad. It really depends on how you look at it. Let’s talk network size now, it’s absoloutely enormous. over a billion snaps are taken using the app every day. That’s a lot of content and I love content. However, it’s not just about content, it’s about the quality and whether or not it’s the type of content you want to view. Snapchat has a lot of immature users that I’d probably not want to hang out with in person for the most part. When you have immature users, you often have to deal with a ton of bullshit that you don’t want to deal with. Overall, the app does a good job of facilitating a way to connect with others in a network that want to take 10-second video or picture selfies. I did connect with pretty girls and hot users while using this site. However, I DID NOT get laid using Snapchat.

Snapsext Evaluation

Now that I’ve shared my opinion on Snapchat, I’m going to share my evaluation on a similar social site, Snapsext. The onboarding process of joining Snapsext was a piece of cake and quite similar to the previously evaluated site. However, I didn’t have to download anything to get started. Instead, I visited Snapsext.com and filled out the simple form, verified my account via a simple email and that was that. Once that was done, I built out my profile out and was off to the races. So, what I really enjoy about Snapsext is that it’s more focused on an all adult social network. This means no having to deal with the bullshit of immature members. The app was as flawless has Snapchat so that was really not any different. One thing I can say that was very different was the type of content and people that I was connecting with. Using Snapsext, I was able to connect with some really beautiful girls that sent over some smoking hot selfies. It was way better than basic sexting too. The best part, they were nudes. You guessed it, Snapsext allows nude content while Snapchat frowns upon this type of content sharing. Another pretty cool attribute of this site is that it’s meant to connect people that are interested in casual dating. The member base and number of snaps taken daily are not even comparable to Snapchat. It’s important to take quality versus quantity into consideration here. I received far better quality snaps from Snapsext members versus Snapchat. Last but not least, I DID GET LAID using SnapSext and I did so on more than one or two occasions.

Conclusion

After using both websites and apps for a number of months, I’ve finally come to the conclusion that SnapSext is better than SnapChat. The bottomline is that I like to hook up with hot girls and I don’t need billions of photos and users to do that. I only need to connect with one hot local girl using a social network that wants the D to get some. That’s my final answer! For those that have not tried Snapsext, my advice would be to stop using Snapchat to meet someone and try joining this social network instead!