If you’re like more local dudes, you want to know how to get a girl in bed the fastest and most effective way. Am I right? Of course, I am. Some guys have the looks and/or the gift of being able to get a girl to have sex with him almost every time, but some are not that lucky. If you are one of those guys, then you will benefit from a guide that you could follow. Look no further. I have put together a step by step guide that, if followed with an open mind and willingness to improvise, could increase your chances of getting laid. Keep in mind that it is impossible to have a hard set of rules that will work every time, but this guide will certainly put you on the right path. Enjoy!
Step By Step Guide On How To Get A Girl In Bed
Here are the best steps to take if you want to get a girl in your bedroom and your jimmy deep inside her naughty booty.
Show Her Your Best
This one might be obvious but it has to be addressed. Put your best foot forward. Dress for success and wear your nicest clothes when you go out. Be the best part of who you are. Don’t fake it, til you make it. Just be the best you and you’ll go much further, faster.
Show Her That You Like Her
Another obvious step, but it has to be done. Show her that you are attracted to her without getting too overzealous. Don’t jump the gun and ask her out until you have gotten to know her and shown her you are interested. You can actually handle this step online via the casual dating site you are using. Send the girl a poke or favorite her or do whatever the site offers to show your interest.
Avoid The Friend Trap
Conversation and getting to know each other is important, but you must show that you are attracted to her and not just enjoy talking to her. This is why it is important to flirt and tease her as your conversation progresses. If she flirts back, then it’s quite possible that she’s giving you a sign that she wants to bang you.
Get In Plenty Of Alone Time
Both of you need to get to know each other and flirt. You don’t want to be around many of your friends (mutual or not) or other people that one of you don’t know. Hanging out with friends will come later after the connection has been established. Perhaps it won’t come at all if this is just a fuck date (that’s fine too).
Take Her Out
This doesn’t necessarily mean to take her on a date. Take her for a cup of coffee or take her out to lunch. Somewhere where there is no pressure of a first date. Just hanging out and getting to know each other. I’ve actually started incorporating a new tactic since the whole Pokemon Go craze started. It helps me connect with girls in more public places and sets me up for success in this step.
Start Flirting And Touching
If she is still showing interest, it’s time to take it to the next level with some light teasing, flirting and touching. Start small and pay attention to her reactions. If she responds well, continue. If she ever seems uncomfortable, back off and continue talking.
Pick A Hookup Place
If she is responding after the flirting, it’s time to advance the relationship. Don’t be presumptuous. Just take to your place or go to hers. Remain relaxed and not too pushy. She will let you know when the time is right to escalate.
Amp The Flirting
If she is at your place or you are at hers, she is interested. Amp up the flirting then, back off. Don’t come on too strong. You are on the right track now, so don’t do anything to derail here. If she’s a college girl and she’s really horny, then you’ll want to bust out some booze to spice things up even further (if you haven’t already).
Toss In A Movie
Movies are great precursors to help you get a girl in bed and have sex. There’s a reason why so many guys ask girls to come over to watch Netflix and chill. It gives you plenty of time to sit in each other’s company without the pressure of thinking of things to say. Not to mention, you can move as fast or as slow as you both desire. Feel her out based on how she responds to during this time. You’re almost at fuck town.
Turn Her On Now
You have advanced through the steps and now it’s time to take it to the next level. This is where the sex happens. Turn up the volume on your flirting. Watch the sparks fly even more. Just remember to always pay close attention to how she reacts. If she gives you the go-ahead, then keep on truckin’ because she likely wants the D. At that point you need to get the girl into your bedroom as quickly as possible if you aren’t there already.
That’s my step by step guide on how to get a girl in bed for some fun. See, I told you there wasn’t much to getting a girl in bed for some hookup fun. All you need to do is follow my directions accordingly and you’ll be successful.