Even the greatest pickup artists in the world started from the bottom. Whether you’re a lonely guy in college, a smart business man on a trip, or a professor at a University, you’ve been in this situation. In fact, we’ve all been in this spot before.
Seriously, nearly every guy has been in a situation where they didn’t know when to make a move on a girl. You don’t want to wait too long or she will get frustrated and lose interest. You don’t want to move in too quickly or she will think that you are an overzealous pervert.
So…when is the right time to make a move?
Most people haven’t got a clue and they just tend to get lucky on occasion. What you need to understand to increase your chances of success, is that you must always be aware.
Why? Well, the girl will give you all the signs you need. She’s going to let you know when to move in if you pay attention. I’ll save you the energy of banging your head against the wall.
Do yourself a solid and check out the signs I’ve provided below. You’ll know exactly when it’s time to make a move on a girl.
Tips For Making Moves On Girls (The When)
Here’s everything that some ridiculously successful guy taught me. I’ve tried and tested each out so you’ve got nothing to worry about. Just pay close attention. Oh, before I forget, you’ll most likely want to use a dating app to move this process along quicker. That’s an added bonus if you needed it!
She starts touching you. If a girl is interested in you, she will begin touching your arm or hand when you talk. She may not even do it on purpose. If she wasn’t interested in you, she would avoid touching.
Her body language changes. If a girl is attracted to you, it will show in her body language. She will open her body and her hips and shoulders will be facing you. If she wasn’t interested in you, she would be more closed off and face away from you as much as possible.
She responds well when you start touching back. When she starts touching you while she’s talking, you start touching as well. If you touch her hand, arm, or leg and she doesn’t pull away and responds well, she is ready for you to start flirting with her.
She keeps moving closer to you. This is another thing that she might do by instinct without realizing it. She leans toward you when you are talking and she continues to move closer and closer to you. If she’s interested, she will visibly want to be as close to you as possible.
She laughs at all your jokes. A girl who is attracted to you will think you are the funniest guy in the room. She will smile the entire time you are talking to her and laugh every time you say a witty comment. She will also blush when you tease her. If she was not interested, she would not be amused.
She looks at your eyes and lips. When a girl is attracted to you, she won’t just look you in the eyes. She will scan your face from your eyes to your lips because she’s thinking about kissing you. She might also look down at your junk. This means that she is thinking about having sex with you.
Pay attention and choose your time and place. If you see an opportunity to make your move, make sure that you are in a good place to do it that is private. Pay close attention to how she reacts to your flirting and conversation and let her guide you. She will let you know exactly when to make a move.
That’s the meat and potatoes of making moves on girls. If you’re still confused, then perhaps you should take your head and slam it in a car door. Just kidding! I wanted to see if you were actually paying attention. LOL Assuming you’ve got a few questions, hit me up but be sure to read my disclaimer page first. I’ve got to cover my ass if these techniques don’t work.
Now, if you’ve got balls of steel like myself, then you’ll simply get out there, take some action and work the process until it works!
Your move my friend….